Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Living with PTSD in the family


Living with PTSD in the family

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Here is where it all began
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Hi everybody,Today I want to tell you about something
most people don’t want to talk about.
About living with a person you love dearly
and suffers from PTSD.

As some of you have read in our earlier posts, my husband Yariv, is a veteran suffering from ptsd.
Most of us have maybe heard the name. Not many have, understandably, dug into it and learned about this disorder.
PTSD is a “post traumatic stress disorder”.
When I met Yariv, two years ago, and fell in love with him, I was just like most of you. I knew very little about this.
It is one thing to hear about it and another to actually live it day by day. Night by night.
What am I talking about when I say

Living with PTSD in the family?

I am talking about long sleepless nights, I am talking about nightmares almost every time he closes his eyes to sleep, I am talking about  living with the knowledge that even though you are young, strong, intelligent and super talented, you will never be able to function normally in a regular society. You will never be able to hold a job, and take care of your family, even though you believe truly that this is your responsibility.
Yariv has not been injured physically. His body is fine. Only his soul was crashed to pieces, seeing what he saw, doing what he had to do, loosing a lot of friends, having the dilemma between his upbringing, his values in life, and the reality he was put into.

    The“Reality of war”

No one can see his pain, no one can see his incapability sometimes to do “normal” things, normal people do in life. He cannot stand up to society’s expectations. It is so frustrating.
It is so frustrating not being able to do what you want and truly believe you should do. This feeling will go on with him his whole life. Sometimes he is ashamed of it. He blames himself for being aggressive towards the ones he loves the most. For taking it out on us. He tries his best to just disappear at these times, which can be unpredictable, and can change by the minute. In order to not cause us any suffering.
A lot of times we do suffer.
We also see him suffer.
Yariv is a part of a band called 9Llives which began as a music therapy project for nine soldiers like himself, by the help of
H4H (Hope for Heroism). An organization that helps wounded soldiers cope with their life after they have served their country.
Yariv 9Lives in LondonToday 9lives is onthe verge of abreakthrough andworking on their firstcd album. Yariv is atalented musician. Hewrites a lot of music,lyrics, and instrumental.
He also edits videos for his songs.
Only two days ago I published a post about a love song he made for my birthday.
Today I want to share this video and music with you all.
The song is called “reality of war”.
which is what his life, and sometimes ours, constantly look like.

Living with PTSD in the family

means Living in a
“Reality of War”
If you too are suffering from a
“Post traumatic stress disorder” (PTSD) you know exactly what I am talking about.
You also know how difficult it is to make your own living and to provide for your own family when sometimes even stepping outside of your room is impossible.
This is why I am sharing with you a great opportunity given to us by Dave Wood from empower networks to earn a decent living from home on the internet, managing your own time and schedule, as it fits your abilities.
Take your time to fill in your best email here on the side of this page, and to listen to what this man has to say. It’s all true!!!
Believe it!!!
Remember:

living with PTSD in the family

does not have to be so frustrating, if we find the things we are able to do with it…
Believe in yourself. In your abilities. Believe you deserve good to happen to you, call it upon you and make it work!!!
We will be there to help you do it step by step along the way.
You have all EMpowernetwork behind you, the best minds in this business, to teach you constantly how to do it.
We won’t let you fall!!!
If you like our post, if we made any change in your life, if we gave you some hope, in your abilities please click “like” and share this with your friends. By this you will be helping them and us getting more exposure, to more people in this world dealing with same issues.
Love you all
Neta
MusiCabin

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